Wednesday, February 06, 2008
Posted by Meeta K
We've heard it time and time again. Where are all the good men? Ever find yourself or a friend complaining that they don't meet enough men? Well, you just have to look in the right places. Men can be found everywhere from your local sports bar, to Home Depot. Just show up with a friendly attitude and a smile.
Now you've got to think, what are things that appeal to men. Good places to start include: car maintenance, cooking, martial arts, wine tasting, and technology seminars. In a place like this you have the opportunity to meet and observe many men in action. What more could you ask for? You could introduce yourself, while enjoying a laugh over something that happened in the previous day's seminar, or compliment him on his approach to something. If it's a cooking seminar, you'll get to sample his goods. Don't let this golden opportunity pass you by!
2. Man's Best Friend
Yes, that's right, I'm talking about dogs. We love our pets, and treat them like family. But dogs are a lot simpler than you and I. They see no problem meeting new friends (usually by sniffing each other's butts). This gives you the chance to meet the owner of these new friends your pet is making. So go over and say hello. You can play games with your pups while getting to know this interesting new man. If you pay close attention, how a man plays and treats his dog says a lot about his character. Is his dog more loving, or disciplined. Is it obedient, or wild? Is he very affectionate with his pup, or more playful?
3. Airplanes and Trains
True, at times these long travels can proof to be a handful. But you always run into some interesting people when you're traveling. Sitting on a long plain ride, or in a railroad car? Say hello to the person sitting next to you. You could even break the ice by asking where he is headed. Remember, it's all about a good positive attitude and confidence. Many men would welcome a nice woman starting up a conversation with them during their travel. And since you both know the destination is in sight, it's a good opportunity to exchange numbers and keep in touch.
4. The World Wide Web
The internet has become a great place to meet people. You can find men on dating sites or on group forums. Whatever peeks his interests, that's where men will be. Many have observed people's actions online and commented on how easy it is to meet people. Afterall, online you can message some random person introduce yourself and comment on something they said. In person, we're a little more apprehensive about walking up to people anytime, and anywhere. So make the best of this and use the internet to develop friendships and possible love connections. You might be surprised what you'll find.
5. The Nearest Sport Bar After A Game
This is where numbers play in your favor. Men are there in mass enjoying a drink after a good game. If you've ever thought you're not meeting enough men, you'll likely be in heaven here. Men from all walks of life gather after a game to share a drink and retell their favorite moments. So join in and have a drink. You may find yourself meeting quite a few handsome men, by the end of the night!
There are plenty of places to find men, so don't be afraid to be creative. And remember, you're out looking for men. So don't be afraid to walk up and say hello or start a conversation. You'll drastically increase your chances if you approach men with a friendly attitude
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This Post was contributed by Vicky from Got A Crush